Movie Night to see The Queen

Our historic theatre in Uptown Normal sold out all seats for this evening’s viewing of The Queen, starring Helen Mirren.

I was towards the back, against the wall and forgot to drink my bottle of water, even after eating some popcorn.  It’s just as well, no way would I have wanted to leave for a potty break.  Nobody else did either.

If you like ‘people to people’ type stories, this movie is for you.  The developing relationship between Queen Elizabeth, the new Prime Minister Tony Blair, and the media is the stuff of psychologists’ dreams.
If you liked Princess Diana and want to see actual film of scenes from the week of her funeral, then you will get your fill. 

I wouldn’t think that Prince Phillip is quite the prig as the actor is directed to be.  James Cromwell must really have wanted to be in bed with Helen Mirren to do so little actual acting.  I’ll forgive him, since he was really fine in Star Trek: First Contact.

I went for its star.  She can convey so much distaste by twitching only a centimeter of her lip or eyebrow.  And the way she walks, in those 1” pumps, is just right for a woman of her age.  Also, the English countryside is easy on the eyes.

The movie has one more evening in our little town, but I hope it goes on for a long time.
It deserves any awards which come its way.

~~love and Huggs, Diane

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Time is supposed to be for social contacts

Whewee.  I just got home from what I call my Yarn Group.  I had been looking forward to it, having been in the house all day yesterday because of the cold weather.  It got all the way up to 31oF today!  The owner at Latte Time even said “It must be Thursday, Diane is getting her mocha bianca to go.”

The Group Leader was absent….home with a cold is what the office girl said.  However, another woman who has been coming since the first of the year was there.  Oh, my goodness, can she talk alot without saying much of anything!  My guys here at home think I am the one who chatters too much, but I tell ya, I met my match, and then some, this afternoon.

When she went out to the office to make a copy of a pattern, one of the other workers, who hardly ever says anything but usually sits quietly down at the end of the table working on the most lovely crocheted baby aphgans, said “Anybody got any tape to use on her mouth?”  I would never have suspected such a statement from that person, so you know our usual comfort level was greatly disturbed.

We all were giggling when she returned, but I don’t think she had any clue about why.

I got about 4” onto the latest pink baby aphgan, and did listen to my chair neighbor’s story about having to take her 18 year old cat for his last ride to the vet, so the time was valuable.

Definitely enjoying having the quiet house to myself awhile.

~~love and Huggs, Diane

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About One Third of the Way done

This morning I got myself all settled in at the breakfast nook table.  There was a full pot of Red Rose brand tea, a new box of 100 blank envelopes, two ink pens, and my box of Rolodex cards.
My purpose was to write names and addresses on the envelopes, making sure especially to have one return for each Holiday Greeting we received last month.
We didn’t get quite as many paper cards and letters this year.  I’m thinking some folks are checking our blogs on a regular basis.  And a couple of the usual card-senders are no longer with us.  This last year has been hard for the Obituary writers.

There were four updates which got all new cards, and I had to call my mother to learn a cousin’s address.  She doesn’t have it, but told me to send one to the old place, since their married daughter and grandkids live in the house now.  Must be a nice property, to keep it in the family.

She also said that three people have asked about my newsletter.  They want to make sure they weren’t missed, or I’m not mad at them.  I guess the old saying “you are off my Christmas card list” means something to certain people.

So there it sits….a box of 86 envelopes with names in black, block letters written on the fronts.  Next, I have to muster up the incentive to stuff and stamp them.

After sitting so long, to work off some of the stiffness in my joints, I climbed onto the stepstool to change the curtains in the bathroom, swept the floor in there, and took out the trash.  Doing just that little bit helped with the smell.  When we ever decide to remodel, the bathroom is long past due.

The cold sun of winter was out for at least two minutes, but the sky quickly went back to steel gray clouds.  I’m glad I got the red shawl mailed off yesterday, which was a fine time for a walk.

Today, I’ve stayed in, watching the squirrels scamper all over the yard.  This was necessary as my eyes and hands needed a bit of relief from the task at hand.

Gonna go see what I can rustle up towards supper.
Some hot vegetable soup comes to mind.

~~love and Huggs, Diane

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Being Young but knowing Old

I read a couple things today which jogged my memory.  The first item was that actress Yvonne de Carlo passed away last week at a nice old age.

My dad would be glad to know she made it so far, as he was very fond of her loveliness.  I think he watched the movie The Ten Commandments just to see her in a gown with a rope around her waist.  She also played Lily Munster on a favorite tv show.

This connected in my mind with my previous job as a hostess in a restaurant chain

muttering—my brief stint at working way too hard for minimum wage while having the waitresses (who would collect so much more in tips) barking at me to take a pitcher of water to Table 8, and the manager telling me that my job was not his job.
I did two weeks training time, two weeks tolerable duty, and two weeks notice.
Collected 3 paychecks, then didn’t set foot in the place for 3 years.

in a way of a slimly threaded memory, but one I hold very dear to my age and confidence in my fellow Baby Boomers.
And I just realized that I already wrote about the whistling customer awhile back.  Oh, that was when the actor who played Grandpa Munster was laid to rest, less than a year ago.

The other item I thought to be of interest was over at Waiter Rant.  He wrote a post about a young waitress who would recognize a connection to an old movie.  The comments remind him that young folks have access to just about everything ever done in media, so it is easy for any one of them to know about some obscure little film.  A couple even tell him to stop putting so much emphasis on age and more on what’s interesting.

I’m thinking that 1313 Mockingbird Lane does belong to those of us who own up to quite a tally of years.  We who never had the luxury of taping a tv show to watch later.
We made sure our homework was done, supper dishes finished and put away, popcorn popped, and seats claimed amongst siblings in the living room.

My spouse tells me that many old tv shows can be purchased on dvd, so maybe someday we’ll be sitting in the living room again—re-living childhood.

~~love and Huggs, Diane

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Shawl from Shades of Red yarn

Although I haven’t written much about what’s happening in my little part of the world, you may rest assured that Life goes on apace, and we are moving right along as best we are able.

Didja ever get stuck by saying to yerself “Well, I don’t have that done, so I can’t do this thing over here neither”  which is precisely what I’m doing lately.
Ya see, our family newsletter is not written.  Nor printed, collated, stuffed, stamped, or mailed.
Not to mention the Thank You notes for Christmas gifts.

What’s even more difficult to explain is that I keep putting off the writing by crocheting some more.  In the last month I have done 14 straight bookmarks, 6 cross bookmarks, and 12 potholders.

All of which helped me to avoid the latest Comfort Shawl.

With a bit of apology to those who have heard the story a few times in real life, I will write about it here so we can get going onward to the next phase.

Awhile back I mentioned a great find in the Clearance Bin at the craft store.  I wanted to make all those pretty shades of reds into the next Prayer Shawl.  Being such nice cotton yarn, and knowing the person I had in mind to receive it, I wanted a bit of open lacework for the pattern.

Now, the purpose of a Prayer Shawl is to be a meditation for the worker, and a comfort and blessing for the wearer.  While working with my previous three shawls (do you realize I made 4 in the year 2006?), I was able to find the rhythm and pray, listen to soft music, watch uplifting movies, or be attentive in conversations with the folks around me.
This one being a more detailed pattern, I had to be alone and count stitches ALOT!

At one meeting of the Yarn Group, I’m chattering away about Christmas plans, or listening to another lady tell me all about her daughter-in-law.  I changed colors, worked all the way down and back and realized my count was off for the first space.
Those two rows had to be pulled out.

Working on this took weeks longer than I had allowed.  I kept leaving it to do an easier piece, or for a gift.
When I finally got it done, I sighed with relief.  But I realized that the main purpose, for comfort and blessing, had not come forth.

On the first Sunday of this New Year, there was to be a Reception between the Worship and Sunday School hours.  More or less giving me the morning off from my duties as the Fellowship Class Hostess.  I figured I might as well get some church-going folks to speak some praises, maybe add a sacred touch.

While I was talking to someone, the shawl draped over my shoulders, I felt the edge move.  I turned to find a baby girl, nearby in her mother’s arms, had grabbed up the corner of the shawl and pulled it up to nuzzle against her plump baby cheek.  The pretty color red had caught her eye and the softness of the yarn invited feeling the texture.
This was definitely the Blessing I had been seeking.
The sweet child did not want to let it go.
Her mother had to pull her fingers open.

I promised I would make her a blankie of her very own with the yarn leftovers.

And so I did.  And I bought a dolly at the thrift store, just the right size for swaddling in an afghan which measures 14” by 15”.

Okay, now that major projects needing crochet are not hovering, I suppose I really should get going on writing a family newsletter.  I cannot feel too awful bad about being tardy, we have received four fine greetings in the last couple weeks.
This tells me that other folks have just as many feelings of duty and dread and delight as I do.

~~love and Huggs, Diane

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Basic Briefs, circa age 50

Today I’m thinking about underwear.  Many reasons.
The first being when I saw a recent picture which Laura has up at Vitamin Sea.


Global warming, uhm, sure…that’s what it says.

The second because my washer got a new pump on Tuesday (Yay for warranty parts and work!), and there were 9 loads of laundry waiting to put through the routine.
It took _Hours_of work!  My whole clothesline in the basement got filled with undies from 3 people.
Just this morning, I put away the last of the towels in the bathroom closet.

Lastly, because I am sitting here in panties the size of which I never, ever thought my backside would get to be as broad as the chart says.  Underwear which I stood in the aisle at Meijer for 20 minutes trying to decide if these were the ones to buy.

I’m telling ya, HANES Her Way is doing something different in the 3 years it has been since the last time I purchased foundation garments.  The measurements printed for the size chart, well, I don’t seem to qualify these days.  Although white is fairly standard as a color choice, I’m not sure the orange or lime print will go over well even in the privacy of my bedroom.
Basic Briefs

These were bought with Christmas Cash, and golly, am I glad my mother-in-law did not try to guess what to put into the box for shipping.

If you want to read my best underwear story ever, I wrote about it awhile back in the Comments at Cindyisms.
Actually, I think I’ll reprint it here as well.

MrsDoF says:
10 Nov 2004 at 12:02 pm |

You inspired me.  This morning I tackled the microwave, which was at the point where we were afraid to put anything into it because it would come out worse than it went in.
This may be about a different post, but I have been trying to remember why it is that I giggle a bit when I think about you and your orange-flowered undies.
This morning, just at the grey light of dawn, it came to me.
Years ago, maybe a couple months before my 21st birthday, I was working at a private hospital, waiting to see if I had passed my Nursing Board Exams.  I got called in to work Evening on my day off to work as the Bedmaker, which was less money but what the hey, I was needing cash trying to save enough to get a place of my own.
So, I pulled on the proper uniform, white pants and green shirt and went to do the job.
While one patient was down in PT, I was changing his bed and humming a bit.  I think the roommate was dozing in the recliner chair.
Just as I finished, I heard a long whistle from across the hall.  There were two fellows over there, mid-20s, had been patients for awhile.
Guys that age should never be expected to remain in one place for weeks on end.
They were recuperating from a farm accident and a car accident.
Apparently the one with the best view of the door-hall-across had called attention to the young lady moving about making the bed.  The one who had whistled, I looked over to see him almost falling out of bed, dangling from his traction and the railing, trying to get a better show.
When he saw that I now knew what he was doing, he called out “I just Love purple-flowered underwear”

Apparently, in my haste to earn some cash, I hadn’t thought about the fashion statement I would be making.  The other nursing staff talked about it for days, and everytime I went into that room, the two guys would ask why I just had on plain whites.  One even asked if he could get into my pants once he was discharged, but that’s a tale for another time.

Cindy says:
11 Nov 2004 at 01:33 am |

That’s too funny.  My buddy at work is going to school to become a nurse.  In his clinicals he has to wear white scrubs and right before he started he forgot that he didn’t have any white boxers and had no money.  I loaned him a couple of bucks, but all he could find were gray.  If you weren’t looking you would never know, but I was looking.  I always look.  But at least they weren’t his black ones with aliens on them.  Thanks for sharing MrsDof.

It might be almost 30 years since that afternoon happened, but it would be hard to top it, what with the patient in traction and all.

~~love and Huggs, Diane

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Reading Something Reliable for the New Year

Over the years, I have given away at least a dozen copies of

In Every Tiny Grain of Sand

My own book falls open automatically to this poem.

On Morning Wings, In Oceans Deep

Lord, you look at me and know me
Every step I take, you show me.

When I rise, and when I rest,
You will always know me best.

Where I walk, or sit, or stand,
You still hold me in your hand.

And if I don’t know how to pray,
You understand me, anyway.

Once when I was lost, you found me.
Then I felt your arms around me.

When I’m afraid and want to hide,
You are always by my side.

When I’m lonely, you are near,
When I’m angry, you stay here.

High as heaven bright, you greet me,
Down in darkness, too, you meet me.

You are with me everywhere:
In light and shadow, fire and air;

In every tiny grain of sand;
And in the desert, vast and grand;

On morning wings, in oceans deep;
When I’m awake, and when I sleep.

In my secret self, you made me,
In the blazing sun, you shade me.

Know me, lead me, guide my way
Through every hour of every day,

For all my life, in all I do,
Let me always be with you.

Reeve Lindbergh  (based on Psalm 139)

Happy New Year!

~~love and Huggs, Diane
ps: I was looking at this book the other day, after my mom told me during a holiday phone call, that my great-aunt, my paternal grandmother’s youngest sister and the last of that generation, has passed away at the age of 85.

May she rest in peace, siblings and parents together again.

My mom went to the service.  I printed out the obituary from the hometown newspaper website. 

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After December Slips Away (lyrics)

This song is found on Donny Osmond’s Christmas at Home album

After December Slips Away

The season comes but once a year
A gift of precious wonder
For all who hold it dear
But past the sights
And colored lights
Lord, far beyond December
I will remember

After the carols fade away
After the Yule fire dies down
When there are no longer dreams to open and see
Because You are hope and joy and peace
Because You’re the only gift I need
In my heart the season will remain
After December Slips Away

Years ago beneath a tree
Fell the drops of crimson
That set the faithful free
The gift was life sent in love
Lord, far beyond December
I will remember

After the carols fade away
After the Yule fire dies down
When there are no longer dreams to open and see
Because You are hope and joy and peace
Because You’re the only gift I need
In my heart the season will remain
After December Slips Away

No matter how bright the glitter shines
No matter how many hopes come true
I know that all I have
Begins and ends with You

After the carols fade away
After the Yule fire dies down
When there are no longer dreams to open and see
Because You are hope and joy and peace
Because You’re the only gift I need
In my heart the season will remain
After December Slips Away
In my heart the season will remain
After December Slips Away
written by Bonnie Keen & Lowell Alexander

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Washer is Down

Well, Lucas went back to his place a bit more relaxed and with a full tummy.

He had to be at the prep cook job at 7am Wednesday, just 2 days after Christmas.
His cat Scratchy was so happy to get into the car.
Our own cats are much less worried about their territory.
I wish they would all just get along.  This time was easier than last, so maybe they will become buddies with future visits.

This evening, we parents, along with son Chris and his girlfriend, went out for oolong tea, won ton soup and egg rolls. The food is very good and plentiful, and I did already mention the wonderful hot tea with a bottomless pot.
The music was a warbling singer and very loud from the speakers. I finally asked the host if it could be changed for the better and he more or less complied.

When we got home, I went down to move the laundry from washer to dryer. It had stopped in mid-cycle, leaving the clothes dripping wet in sudsy water. I tried turning the knob, turning it off at the outlet….No Response. I looked up the papers, found the warranty date and 1-800 number, then called.
The voice-mail system didn’t take long, thank my lucky stars.

The operator told me to unplug the machine, wait a minute, then re-start. I went away from the phone, did the instructions. Nothing. I went back to the phone and went through all the buttons and questions again, then got a guy operator.
A Repairman cannot come until Tuesday January 2.

Tomorrow, I will be hauling 5 loads of dry, dirty laundry in baskets (plus one very wet and dripping load in a tub) off to the laundry house. On the way, I’ll have to stop at the bank to get rolls of coins.
On the plus side of this, all the clothes will be clean in just a couple hours, rather than me going up and down to move them along between machines and clothesline all day long.

I borrowed another book from the library, so I’ll read awhile.
Hopefully all will be done before the Yarn Group meeting where I can relax.

~~love and Huggs, Diane

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Christmas Day 2006

Our Nativity Scene is 20 years old
hand-carved from olive wood in the Holy Land

There’s nothing quite like having sons home from college to mellow out Christmas morning.  They stayed up late into the night, talking like brothers, watching dvds, playing with cats.  Husband says he heard them in the kitchen long after I was snoring.

I was up at the crack of dawn because that’s when my medicine has worn off and my back is protesting being in bed too long.  I fed our cats, under the watchful eye of Scratchy, our guest cat.  His bowl, water, and litter box are set up down in Lucas’s room.

I set the tea to brew, took my pill, did my 10 minutes of wake-up exercises, then came over to see if anybody had Christmas Info up on their blogs.
I tried to say Merry Christmas everywhere I could—I sure had fun!

Of course, the guys being up so late, they weren’t eagerly out of bed too early.
We had our French toast and sausage at about 11:30 in the morning, then began the gift opening at 12:30.

Years ago, we established that Christmas morning was not to be a free-for-all, when everybody tears into the carefully wrapped and labeled packages and seems to be self-absorbed and important to see how much loot they got.  Nope, our gifts are given out one at a time and each person is center stage for a couple minutes.  It might seem to take forever, but by golly, we try to make a gift about the loving care of the giver, not the stuff inside the box.

Lucas declared because he has the longest, most bushy beard that He would play Santa Claus and distribute the gifts.  I became the secretary, keeping the list of who gave what to each person, usually to make writing Thank You notes easier.

We got good stuff.  I can’t say that I had a favorite, since I really don’t need anything.  We’ll be watching dvds of The DaVinci Code and CARS sometime in the near future, and I’ll be reading ‘an estrogen rich collection of cartoons’ book with the title Women of Substance, which came in a box as a surprise, alongside some jars of jelly from blogfriends Mary and Jay.

The sons got money or gift cards from just about everybody, since they know the details of their own interests.  Although I did please Chris with a package of socks.  I guess since I do the laundry, I see what brands and fabrics come through most often and figure those are his favorites.

The cats, especially the young guest, have been having much fun with ribbons and wrapping paper in the middle of the living room.  We left it there quite awhile for their enjoyment.

One of my favorite things to do is bake.  And to have uninterrupted time on a holiday is so much fun.  I decided last week that I would like to try an Italian Cream Cake recipe from an old cookbook sold by a church as a moneymaker.  It wasn’t very well-written, no size of pan nor its preparation was given.  My guess was a bit off, so there was overflow and sticking to the bottom.  Experience did fill in a few gaps of the writing.


The end result is quite tasty.  The cream cheese frosting is worth all the crumbs and other work.

I’m calling it my “Happy Birthday, Jesus” cake because it is the first layer cake I’ve baked and frosted in at least 18 years.  Our usual cake of choice would be Pepperidge Farm from the freezer at Kroger’s.

I called my mother and we talked for an hour.  She’s wondering where our newsletter is.  Good things come to those who wait.

She gave me the news that my nephew asked his longtime girlfriend for her hand in marriage.  When she answered Yes, he gave her a nice diamond ring as her Christmas gift.  I think it’s cool that my sister Denise got her ring one Christmas, and now their son has done the same.

My goodness, look at the lateness of the hour!  The only time I went outside today was to carry out the trash bags.
Still, I’m heading off to bed.
~~love and Huggs, Diane

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